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Nov & Dec 2003 - South Korea (Belly dance, safety and nightlife)

The good and the bad - This morning I walked down to the corner shop and was surprised to see Korean people. Stayed in all day relaxing and had almost forgotten we were in Asia for a moment. It's a strange feeling when you suddenly remember you are in Korea and not back home. Today is January 1st 2004. 2004 Valeria and I will get married, see three Euro 2004 games, travel Eastern Europe and I (Paul) will try and learn a lot more Italian. Expect plenty of pictures from many countries in 2004.

In November Valeria, Jeanan (an American/Iraqi) and Alison (from Ireland), got into the Korean Herald newspaper with a 1/2th page report and photo on their belly dancing performance in an Egyptian restaurant. They packed the place out and fools like myself who didn't realise that there are so many dance movements were surprised. One of the Seoul T.V. stations now wants to film them for the T.V. news.

Valeria, Alison and Jeanan bellly dancing in Seoul Korea Belly dance with a veil
All photos by Valeria Lo Iacono & Paul Symonds - 2004
Above (Valeria, Jeanan & Alison)

Safety can sometimes be abysmal in Korea. Below (right) a picture outside our apartment, showing the way cables are hung from building to building, not that high in the air. Notice the maze of cables - this is typical everywhere in Seoul. Two weeks ago we saw a truck driving outside with the roof of the truck pushing and shifting the cables. Drivers drive through red lights; motorbikes drive across with pedestrians on crossings; schools etc NEVER ever do fire drills; and so on. About 4 times since coming here, have seen the chalked out body markings of where people had been killed on the road. One of the Korean teachers I know here lost her husband because he died when a neon sign fell on him and killed him. I swear that this is a true situation. It is probably the safest have ever been to for walking at night and guns. You never feel threatened when walking home like you would late at night in UK or Ireland. You might see drunks sometimes but they'd be completely unthreatening. Few days ago - the aftermath shown below (left), 50 meters from our house, a big truck loaded with soil tipped over onto its side as it tried to go up a hill which was obviously too steep, and dumped its soil over the car and half buried it. I think the car was empty thankfully. In the picture below left - the truck has already been lifted back onto its wheels, as they finish digging the car out from under the soil.

A lorry topples over in Seoul in Kangnam Power cables everywhere in Seoul, Korea

Korean logic - In the final two weeks of December, it was eventful. In 'Crazy Hooks' - a very busy local restaurant, last week, we all ordered our food and after a lengthy time my steak came but Valeria's food was missing. Half way through the steak one of the staff grabs my half finished plate with the steak and says that even though I ordered exactly the same thing, that one was meant for another table - he walks away with half finished steak. Five minutes later they bring another similar steak, although with french fries instead of a jacket potato as now they have no potatoes left. This kind of logic is typical. Another time, a friend was in the situation whereby he ordered a meal but on the menu it came with beans. He asked for it but asked them just to not bother with the beans but they insisted he had to also have the beans as they were included. In the end after talking with the manager, they gave him his meal and brought a side dish with the beans as he had to have them as on the menu it came with the meal. This is typical of the way many things work in Korea. In other ways they have some great ideas. In restaurants/bars they always have a small button (buzzer) ont he end of the table. When you need serving you just press it and they are at your table within a minute usually. It will be tough being in UK or Italy where you have to wait at the bar for 5 minutes trying to get served, as some blighter jumps in front of you. 'Floor heating' which heats a room in a very short time also seems like something which makes so much sense and saves so much money and power. The taxi's are also so cheap and numerous here. Will miss this things.

Ladies in Korea promoting food

People are always on the streets promoting things in the area we live, Gangnam. Above two ladies promoting a new bar/restaurant. This area is one of the busiest in Seoul, and was nothing but fields 15 years ago. Places close down and re-open with new furnishings within 2 days here. Below, in Gangnam at night. The nightlife can be good.


Gangnam in Seoul at night


South Korea is a mismatch of good things and bad things. Overall, let me say this it is a great experience living in Seoul. Most people are very kind. I am sure that Asian people get treated much worse in Europe. I can't complain at all. I have experienced a few long stares on the subway and a shout of "Go home Yankee" one time in the local shop but that was it. People often presume that as caucasians we must be American. A Korean friend in Ireland once complained that people there always thought she was Japanese. It's the same in reverse I have found. Koreans often complain that people (especially Americans) don't know anything about Korea and where Korea is. When I ask Koreans about Hungary or Scotland etc they know no more than people know about Korea. Final pictures below - Valeria (left) and another picture of Seoul at night (right).

Valeria belly dancing in Korea Bars of Kangnam Seoul, Korea

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